Tuesday, September 26, 2006

Everyone vote for Mia

I saw a contest on the ToysRUs website for the cutest baby and, of course, I sent in Mia's picture. I could care less about winning the prizes because I already know she's the cutest baby on the planet but if YOU care about winning, vote here.

In other news, I start my 2nd part-time job today. Mia's spending the day with Nano and her cousin Paola. As Thomas was putting her in the car this morning he called me a mere indigne in an attempt to lighten the mood. I just started crying. I guess la belle epoque is finished.

mere indigne worthless mother

Monday, September 25, 2006

Another Monday

We didn't even get a weekend and it's already the beginning of another week. Thomas' into his second week of the 2006 harvest and has been working long days in an attempt to control the various factors that are making this vintage a difficult one. The numerous international interns in the winery and the Danish students out picking in the vineyards give a good deal of ambience to the Chateau, but the management team is far from calm. Thomas is doing his best to turn the situation around so that Mia, despite being born in a less-than-perfect (wine) vintage, will at least have a good case of Palmer to open on her 20th birthday.

Our little girl also had her first cold last week, but seems to be doing better now. I felt so guilty as I left her with Ingrid (the babysitter) to go to St. Emilion on Thursday. And again on Friday. And then on Saturday she was with Nano and Bomp while I went to a silly lunch at the Chateau for an Italian author (the things I do to see my husband during harvest). But she's a little trooper, always happy whomever she's with, and always happy to see her parents when we walk through the door.

This morning I have to figure out a more permanant mode de garde for Mia as, in addition to showing visitors around vineyards on the Right Bank, I'm also starting a very part-time office position at the Bordeaux Winemaker's Assocation. It's to be one or two full days a week, just a five minute walk from the house, and I'll be in charge of setting up tastings, technical days, class graduation ceremonies, job listings, etc. Hopefully the occasional translation too. At any rate, nothing too taxing but more of a day among other adults. I also think it will be good for Mia to have one day a week with other kids without Ma-ma-ma always around.

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Babysitters

I can't always leave Mia with Nano and so sometimes I have to resort to babysitters. My friends have given me a pretty good list but I have yet to find The One, who would basically replicate me but in a less-perfect form. The two I've tried so far have been nice girls but they always had the tv on and both wore a lot of perfume. And one of them has really large breasts and a penchant for low-cut shirts, which means I can only call her during the day when Thomas won't see her. I haven't yet called a sitter just to take an afternoon off -- only for dental appointments and interviews. Seeing how inexpensive it is (6 Euros an hour!) I may call one on a rainy day next week and go to the movies with a girlfriend.

Saturday, September 16, 2006

Carrots

It's been a week of haute cuisine here in Bordeaux. Mia has been introduced to green beans, peas, leeks (which she loved) and carrots (which she didn't). Thomas and I, on a slightly different level, experienced the vegetables of Michel Bras with our friends Joanna and Jerome. Needless to say, we didn't spew anthing at our fellow diners. Posted by Picasa

Thursday, September 07, 2006

Il faut une patience...

Sometimes just the simple things of living in France can drive you nuts. People often ask me if I miss my own country and my answer 99.9% of the time is "Non".

But when it comes to Customer Service, no one beats America! In any store in the States, you're always welcomed with a smile. You chat. You have a special request? They'll bend over backward to help you. Here? In the mom-and-pop shops, you’ll be okay. But in the grandes surfaces, you can just forget it.

At the supermarket this morning, I had to ask the woman at the customer service desk twice to call someone to help me reach Mia's milk conveniently placed on the uppermost shelf of the baby isle. When the person finally showed up, instead of responding to my smile, he just grumbled about how over-worked he was and how helping customers wasn't his job before he shoved the box into my hands.

On the other end of town, I stopped by an appliance store to check out their warranties and delivery services. I wandered around looking for an employee to help me and found 5 of them sitting around drinking coffee. When I asked for a renseingement, a woman responded that the person in charge of large appliances was in the back and that I would have to wait until he was back. So I left.

And in the public sector it’s not much better. On the way home with Mia still awake in the stroller, I stopped by the Tribunal d'Instance to ask a question about obtaining the nationality. After carrying the stroller up 25 steps (because people in wheelchairs don’t exist here) I found the Service des Nationalites. I didn’t stay long though, because the place was full of tobacco smoke. The person in charge had his door open and was smoking a pipe while he had people in his office. I thought that was illegal, but I’m not French so I may be wrong. At any rate I think I might put off sending my application in until further notice.

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

No time for DH so far

I've just been too busy with the details of the rentree: finding babysitters, daycare options, repainting the deck, looking for appartments to buy, buying things for Mia on ebay and all sorts of other things that keep me busy and out of trouble.

Thomas is having a great time in Japan. We chat on skype twice a day, or more if Mia isn't awake and can't come to the computer. He could really care less about seeing his wife as he is ga-ga for his bebe phoque. I'm not sure if it's just Thomas' voice or if she can actually see his image but her little legs start kicking double-time and she gets a big grin on her face. Anyone who would like to see her in action can look for me under Carlina76.

bebe phoque baby seal

Monday, September 04, 2006

Bon voyage Papa

Thomas left for Japan this morning for a 6 day promotional tour in Tokoyo. So Mia gets a "Mom-only" week and Thomas gets good sushi. What do I get? No-brainer evenings spent watching Desperate Housewives and eating dinners from Picard. A vacation in itself.

Saturday, September 02, 2006

Plat principal et dessert

Our first try at eating today, with limited success. The sweet potato puree, made by moi, was a hit but she seemed unsure about the puree of pears without added sugar or preservatives that I bought especially for her at the bio store on the other end of town. We'll try a little more at gouter and see if she's more interested.

In other French food news, there is a new cook book in bookstores that revisits the classic dishes of school cantines. Here on